As with all the baby products, getting the right one takes time and lots of trials. When it comes to feeding spoons, there is no difference. By the time I got to my second baby I had pretty much tried most of them.
Your baby’s first spoons should be small, since your baby can’t eat much at this time, and the tips should also be soft so they are gentle enough on your baby’s gums. Nowadays you can also get spoons that turn white if the food happens to be over 110°F (43.3°C). My favorites so far are the Munchkin Safety Spoons, which turn white if food is too hot for the baby.
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